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References, and what to do if there aren’t any

References can tell you how someone has worked for others. But don't be surprised if a carer can't give you any: many families would rather not share that they've had help with a loved one's care, so a good carer may have no previous clients they can put forward.

If they can give you a referee, a short phone call is worth more than a written note. Ask how long they worked together, whether they were reliable, and whether they'd use them again.

If not, other things can give you confidence:

If a carer does give you a previous client's details, they should have asked that client first. That's a good sign.

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